Abortion: Why is this such a tough issue?

(this is still a writing in progress-but i m putting it up while i work on it-- this is how i write i put ideas, main points, then try to make an essay or article will see if i can craft this better)

1.Abortion with regard to rape, incest & life of mother. 2.And abortion with regard to sexuality and regular sex, and because someone cannot afford a baby.
-These are two different topics and should be argued and viewed as such.

i think that rape abortion (life/choice) discussed policies topic is not same as contraceptives, abortions, sexual choices. 2 different things.

Rape abortion topic has become a big issue that it must be a separate issue.
You'd think that millions of women are raped or assulted every minute....

Fear of rape: having a choice makes women feel safe, if it happens, they have options.

1.  Morning After Pill


If a woman has sex & then after a few months decide she cannot afford the baby, or that she doesn't want the baby, or the male refuse to support an unplanned baby, then abortioning is morally wrong. They should have used contraceptives.


Think before act.

Case by Case

Contraceptives should be wildly available:


There are always campaigns for women to be safe and not provoke rape, but where
are the campaigns that tell men not to rape?

The rapers could be stunned


Common sense solutions are needed.


Abortion/Rape topic and Sexual decisions, contraceptives, abortions topic are two separate topics. And I strongly believe that they should not be argued in the same debate.

If We Don't Speak Up, Who Will?

RE:  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/08/15/savage-muni-ad_n_1784930.html?ncid=edlinkusaolp00000003


Who exactly is civilized man? It's based on individuals.You cannot say all of group X is civilized  because there are uncivilized jerks of every group. 

In the war between the civilized man & the savage. Don't support either! Support balance & love. Defeat hatred, bias, & continued killings.

In world of war, support no one, don't support the civilized or the uncivilized man in war. They are both wrong. Support peace.

Who Will Say: What is the Best Solution Regardless of My View

Churches, goovernments , corporations, organization have their own agenda but no one is willing to come to middle ground & see all sides & do & layout the best solution for humanity-for the people.

a comment on Google: Don't Sponsor Bigotry

Re: http://www.change.org/petitions/google-dont-sponsor-bigotry


I wish there was a middle ground for this. There is that option of Freedom of Speech.  Why would, I, a brown person defend their right to free speech? If we limit them, then we are limited too.  It's like someone who is white should have the right to say, "white people great" but not to say "white people are great but all brown/black people or other ethnic people should die." Another aspect is that it is better to know the hate upfront than it being hidden. It is better to be hated with words than killing with hate with hidden agendas. In a way it is good that Google is bringing their voice to the open, maybe then we can have point of discussions. Why do some of the bigots hate people of color-is it because of a personal bullying experience or what they been taught?  It is great to have a variety of cultures and be proud of our heritages as long as we don't hate on someone else's differences. I think that if google is going to sponsor their forum google should also facilitate a discussion about race relations, hate, acceptance, and find out the root cause of hate.   But on the other hand, it is also good to nip terrorism in the bud, because extremisms can be bad. "proud to be brown. proud to be white proud to be black proud to be purple proud to be green proud to be yellow proud to be grey" as long as we don't think that someone of another color is inferior or should be killed. Individuals can be inferior no matter the race or ethnicity OR superior. If Google sponsors this group, then Google also have to ask themselves would they sponsor a group that hated white people? Anyway, why can't these supremacists get with the program and help heal the world and find solutions to help where they are instead of focusing on destruction. We all share this planet, and should be able to peacefully, instead of being reactive all the time about little things.